Prayers Heared

Prayer heard  


Prayer heard  
 On 11th Feb 2019 Mr.  Dinkar Bhide 87 was admitted with MadhurBhav Senior living home.  He was very strong headed when the family member saw that it’s difficult to manage at home, they searched on google and came to Madhurbhav. They brought father who is thin very well learned, spoken Sanskrit and written books on Bhagwat Gaeta. he started having illusion that he is suffering from cancer and he has not gone to the toilet for six months, his blood has become black and does not want to eat food since he had been suffering from constipation (Movie Piku) He was some like that, He was very choosy about the food which is having and would tell if its prepared well or no? He will ask for milk, banana. Tea, biscuits, fruits, grapes, mango. He will not eat meals at a time and refuse and told that your cook is not cooking well and will depend on the food from outside, everybody used to like him so much that in spite of he being very stubborn and will not listen and will tell. you get out of my room, he would ask how to sneak around from the place which is way to go outside the premises so he can escape from the Madhur bhav, his family members used to visit home weekly to find out how is he doing, he would tell that arrangements are good, but staff is beating him in the afternoon, staff is not good, this was to take the sympathy from family that family members would take him home. Then slowly he started hitting the staff and would not listen to eat food.  He had become a week too. We insisted to have the food, he would throw from the window and will let us know that he has eaten well. I realized that he does not want to live anymore. He is n  deep depression, more than he started giving up on food, water, and medication. This results in weakness and we tried saline on him. He would not listen and pulled all the tubes and threw out of the room. We showed him to psychiatrist, he clearly told that I don’t want to live so he is not eating and taking any food. all the staff and myself worried about his health, the person who came here and very demanding has suddenly become very docile and not getting up ( sleeping all the time )  with no interest in  food  . Forcing him to eat was also limit by itself. I called up relatives to meet him often as the condition does not look all that great, relatives came and fed Upma which is favorite but still, he said it’s too salty. Doesn’t want to eat.
Days passed and I saw palpitation, called his daughter in law to find out what he likes so we can feed him to save his life .we offered him juice in the morning, which he drank and evening again when the daughter in law told that he loves sugarcane juice, please feed him and will visit him tomorrow morning.
Poonam was there and ordered sugarcane juice and he drank the whole glass without any resistance and after some time when staff went to give the milk at night, Baba was in sleep to never to get up and we thank daughter in law as she said to give him sugarcane juice and he took last breath afterward.
 I think his prayers being heard by God and took the last breath on April 5th, 2019.

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